In Memory of Darlene Bengford



Darlene Bengford
Darlene Bengford
Born: December 12, 1931
Died: March 19, 2023
Age: 91
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Darlene Bengford
December 12, 1931 - March 19, 2023
From: Odebolt, IA

Darlene Bengford, age 91, of Odebolt, Iowa, passed away on Sunday, March 19, 2023, at the Horn Memorial Hospital of Ida Grove, Iowa.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 a.m., on Tuesday, March 28, 2023, at the St. Martin Catholic Church of Odebolt, Iowa. Father Richard D. Ball will officiate. Committal Services will follow in the St. Martin Catholic Cemetery of Odebolt, Iowa.

A Visitation will be held from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., with a Rosary Service at 4:45 p.m. and a Vigil Service at 7:00 p.m., on Monday, March 27, 2023, at the St. Martin Catholic Church of Odebolt, Iowa.

The Christensen-Van Houten Funeral Home of Odebolt, Iowa, is in charge of the funeral arrangements. Condolences may be sent online at www.christensenvanhouten.com

Memorials in honor of Darlene may be directed to the Odebolt Community Center at PO Box 279 Odebolt, IA 51458.

Darlene Marie Heires Bengford, age 91, of Odebolt, Iowa, passed away on Sunday, March 19, 2023, surrounded by her loving family after a brief illness. 

Born on December 12, 1931, to William and Marie (Brune) Heires, Darlene grew up on a farm and attended St. Bernard's Catholic School in Breda, Iowa.

On April 14, 1953, Darlene married the love of her life Donald Paul Bengford of Odebolt in the St. Bernard's Catholic Church of Breda by Father Frank Brady. They made their home in Odebolt, lived in Fort Collins, Colorado, for a few years, and then returned to Odebolt for the duration of their lives. The couple were blessed with eight children: Renee, Jeanette, Ann, Leah, Mitch, Rose, Tony, and Todd. 

Darlene was a business owner of a dress shop in Odebolt called "The Boutique" and later in life worked at the Odebolt Public Library. She loved to read and was an avid player of games to include Pitch, Scrabble, Yahtzee, and crossword puzzles. Affectionately known as “Grandma Don” or “candy grandma” by her grandchildren and great grandchildren, Darlene treasured every moment spent with her family. Her favorite spot was the front porch where she hosted many "porch parties".   

Survivors include her children Renee (John) Hanson of Cushing, IA, Jeanette (John Grote) Fertig of Arcadia, IA, son-in-law Patrick Hoefling of Odebolt, IA, Leah (Robert) Fineran of Ida Grove, IA, Mitch (Lois) Bengford of Odebolt, IA, Rose (David) Schultz of Odebolt, IA, Tony (Andrea) Bengford of Sioux City, IA and Todd (Angie) Bengford of Odebolt, IA; 27 grandchildren and their significant others; 61 great-grandchildren and 2 great great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sisters-in-law Dorothy (Jim) Barkley of Chicago, IL, Mary Van Scoy of Council Bluffs, IA, Darlene Bengford of Fort Collins, CO and Malinda Bengford of Sioux City, IA; and brother-in-law Francis (Sandy) Bengford of Greeley, CO. 

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Donald Bengford; daughter Ann Bengford Hoefling; great-granddaughter Kimber Hanson; siblings and their spouses Irvin (Agnes) Heires, Herman (Ann) Heires, and Marge (Ed) Pietig. She was also preceded in death by her brother-in-law and his wife Leonard and JoAnn Bengford; sister-in-law and husband Juanita and Don Ahrenholtz; brother-in-law and wife Gerald and Ruth Bengford; brothers-in-law Jim Van Scoy, Paul Bengford, and Denny Bengford; as well as several nieces and nephews. 

Memorials in honor of Darlene can be direct to Odebolt Community Center, 116 E 2nd Street, P.O. Box 279, Odebolt, Iowa, 51458.

SERVICES

10:30 a.m., Tuesday,
March 28, 2023
St. Martin Catholic Church
Odebolt, Iowa

There will be a Facebook Live of the service on the Christensen-Van Houten Funeral Homes Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063608887080

OFFICIATING

Father Richard D. Ball

CASKET BEARERS

Alan Hanson
Brian Streed
Mike Hoefling
Cole Bengford
John Schultz
Brad Fineran
Mitch Hoefling
Clayton Bengford

Honorary Pallbearer
Samantha Reese

VISITATION

5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Rosary Service at 4:45 p.m.
Vigil Service at 7:00 p.m.

Monday, March 27, 2023
St. Martin Catholic Church
Odebolt, Iowa

MUSIC

"In Christ Alone"
"On This Day, O Beautiful Mother"
"Come To Me"
"The Lord's Prayer"
"Beautiful Is Your Love"
"To Where You Are" by Josh Groban

Kay Bloyer, Organist
Joey Hoefling, Cantor

INTERMENT

St. Martin Catholic Cemetery
Odebolt, Iowa


Condolences


Wednesday, March 29, 2023 at 12:03 PM
“Sorry for your loss Leah my condolences to your family”
- Anne Thornhill
Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 9:41 AM
“Our sympathies from Troy Trista Clyde and dirkxley curnyn ”
- Trista Curnyn
Monday, March 27, 2023 at 9:16 AM
“My thoughts and heart are with all the family and friends during this difficult time. I’m so sorry for the loss of Darlene, as I know she was a very special person to many. May the many happy memories that were made together be a consolation today and all the days ahead. I send my sincere condolences and sympathies.”
- Suzan A Streed
Thursday, March 23, 2023 at 9:09 AM
“Prayers for the family.She was such a nice lady.”
- Bud&Sandy Lichter
Thursday, March 23, 2023 at 9:09 AM
“My heartfelt sympathy to all of you. I first met Darlene just a few decades ago when I helped Diane Smith Thies babysit with just a handful of you. Fast forward through many interactions to the birth of my Angi. We left the hospital during an ice storm. No electricity and a brand new baby are not a good mix. Darlene invited us to share her fireplace where we stayed warm and were fed until dark. What a gem. May warm memories replace your tears in the near future. I have a hunch she would like that.”
- Esther Streed-Johnson
Thursday, March 23, 2023 at 9:09 AM
“Sending prayers of comfort to you all. What a beautiful family she has built. Thinking of you all.”
- Carla Morrow
Thursday, March 23, 2023 at 9:09 AM
“Aunt Darlene’s laugh is seared in my memory. Always loved visiting with her. Know that you all are in our thoughts as you remember your mom’s life. ”
- Paula
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